OK, I didn’t really fire my downline. I don’t think you can fire them. But I did nicely suggest that they quit. I guess I do need to explain that, but first a little background to help it make more sense.
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If you have never thought about this before, hopefully what I have to say will give you some ideas that will help you improve your business. Ready? Here it is…
People are going to do whatever it is that they decided they will do. You couldn’t stop them if you tried. Some people are going to join Company X. Some people are going to buy Product A. They have already decided and you had nothing to do with that decision.
I compare this to toilet paper. Because in my bathroom there had better be Charmin Ultra Plus. If there isn’t, that means we ran out (again) and someone needs to go to Wal-Mart, and fast.
I personally chose this brand of toilet paper. You could say I am emotionally attached to it. You could not get me to change brands. Not without a fight anyway. And I don’t care how much it costs.
The funny thing is, from a network marketing point of view, at no time did any Wal-Mart representative call me, email me, or send me a post card, screaming and yelling about how I absolutely must use Charmin Ultra Plus and buy it from Wal-Mart. That never hapened to me. Not once.
And, I was never contacted by any independent Charmin distributor either. Or any toilet paper distributor for that matter.
Wal-Mart simply knew that people like me have already decided to buy it, so they just put it on the shelves where it can be found.
Hey, you can do the same thing. I do. Right now, today, there are people who want to buy your product. There are people right now that actually want to join your opportunity. And for these people all you have to do is show them where it is. No convincing allowed. No cold calling required.
Because it’s easy to get someone to do what they have already decided they will do. You just need to be the person who has what they want when they want it.
So what would make me do the unthinkable, and suggest someone in my downline quit? Because they were going to anyway. Couldn’t stop them if I tried.
In this case, they made a decision to join this opportunity. I never told them about it. They heard about it somewhere and decided to join. I was just there at the right place and the right time.
But just as quickly as they joined, they decided it was not for them, and ready to quit. Makes it sound like I have a bad opportunity, doesn’t it? I don’t. But it’s like Tom ‘Big Al’ Schreiter says:
All MLM companies have problems. You just choose which one you want to have problems with…
Why waste your energy trying to convince someone to stay? In their minds they had already decided. I just agreed with them, suggesting they do. It’s senseless to stick with a company you just started with that you don’t love.
But by telling them it was a good idea that they quit, I let them off the hook. Now they are happy. They can leave without shame and continue on their journey.
I am happy. I won’t have to keep thinking ” here we go, more complaints”. Plus I offered my assistance for when they did find what they were looking for.
Here is why that is important… Nobody got their feelings hurt. Nobody’s pride was damaged. No bridges were burnt. And you never know what will happen in the future.
This couple has experience, and acted as pros. They may always come back. Or they might come to me for some other type of service.
If I had taken it personally, or if I had tried to convince them to stay when they clearly did not want to, no good could have come from that. But by approaching the situation as a consultant, looking out for their best interests, all things are still possible.
So you probably caught that there was never a relationship built before they joined. And you’re probably thinking that if there had been, they may not have quit.
You would be right of course.
So does that mean you should never allow someone to join your organization without creating a relationship first? Nope, not at all.
And in an upcoming post I’ll share how great things can happen using the exact same “being at the right place at the right time” technique.